CONVERSANDO CON LA COMADRE INÉS (IV)
There were several conversations we had with Agnes on fear. That's because we took consciousness that fear occupied an important part in our development as women. Engraved within us, the fear appears and reappears throughout life causing insecurity and some of us suffering.
One of the first fears that we had experienced was not to be loved. We knew that love is fundamental for human development. Was unconditional love or were loved only if they obeyed the established order, to the image others require of us? How many times have we made and accepted unacceptable things to be loved? Only during Last week, how many? How long would our list, your list? And how we felt after that? Already
adolescents, we see that the time of menstruation or the rules, filled many of us, not only of fear if not of shame as well. For some, it was a secret he had to save, an event that only women live and which causes confusion, the reason for concealment and self-deprecation. Today, writing these lines I see that things did not change much. The industry is enhanced concealment''these days''creating thousands of products just for women'''' so you can feel clean and attractive''.'' Today, what we explain to our girls about menstruation?
Perhaps our first fight to improve our rights could start with the fight to end the fear.
PILAR
One of the first fears that we had experienced was not to be loved. We knew that love is fundamental for human development. Was unconditional love or were loved only if they obeyed the established order, to the image others require of us? How many times have we made and accepted unacceptable things to be loved? Only during Last week, how many? How long would our list, your list? And how we felt after that? Already
adolescents, we see that the time of menstruation or the rules, filled many of us, not only of fear if not of shame as well. For some, it was a secret he had to save, an event that only women live and which causes confusion, the reason for concealment and self-deprecation. Today, writing these lines I see that things did not change much. The industry is enhanced concealment''these days''creating thousands of products just for women'''' so you can feel clean and attractive''.'' Today, what we explain to our girls about menstruation?
Perhaps our first fight to improve our rights could start with the fight to end the fear.
PILAR
Tête à Tête INES AVEC
Nous avons eu plusieurs conversations sur la peur avec Ines. Il fut ainsi parce in which nous avions peur pris conscience that binds to occup important partie de notre développement en tant to femmes. Gravee au plus profond de notre être, la peur appears and reappears throughout life and causing insecurity for some of us suffering.
One of the first fears we experienced was that of not being loved. We knew that love is fundamental to human development. Is it unconditional love or it is present only when we obey the established order, like the others require of us? How many times have we accepted and unacceptable things to be loved? Only during the last week, how many?. How long is our list, your list? And what we felt after that?
Teen, we found that the time of menstruation or rules could fill some of us, not only fear but also shame. For some, it was a secret to keep, an event that only women live, and who, for some, creates confusion, concealment behaviors and self-depreciation. Today, while writing these lines, I see that things have not changed much. The industry continues to flourish with numerous and expensive products to hide''these days'',''thousands of products intended exclusively women so that they can''feel''clean and attractive.''
Today, what we explain to our daughters about menstruation? Perhaps our first fight to improve our rights could start the fight to end fear.
Pilar
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